who hasn’t encountered the bully? i survived the grade school bullies. i even managed to get past a teacher in 3rd grade who shamed me in front of the class for my lack of language skill in an institution where only spanish and hebrew were spoken. yeah a blond haired tanned california kid found herself quite suddenly uprooted in a foreign place. this teacher tapped my frustration and if i dared cry she rocked me on her lap like an infant in front of the class. generally the bullies who used physical threat didn’t bother me. i stood up to them. i am not a fighter and have often come out on the losing end. but i never once backed down. before leaving california (at the age of eight) i acquired an impressive bloody nose when the much older sibling of a hispanic girl took exception when i refused to yield my spot on the merry-go-round to her sister. that was in griffith park and adult bystanders did nothing but pass me napkins fro...