i will admit reluctantly that i have indulged a bit in online personals. i have dabbled on and off for the past 3 years. i cant say that i have been successful at finding love but i have met some amazing women...in person. there may not have been a spark or simply we just werent right for one another at the time but i consider most dear friends. in so many ways they have enriched my life. regardless no love connection was had so i am back to looking... recently i updated my profile. i have been a little bent at some of the snobbery that exists on one site in particular. full of pomps and vanities it seems. one doesnt deserve acknowledgment if one isnt A-list or model beautiful or wealthy. actually ive experienced this in person at pride events. the gays were so much more sociable than lesbians. at least most have been up front enough on their profiles so that you are warned to go no furt...